I saw this on a FB of a gal I know who was a surrogate for a friend of mine. I sure hope she doesn't mind that I am stealing it and posting it here, but thought is was so fitting for the friends I have lost while going through IF.
I'm selfish, impatient, & a little insecure.
I make mistakes, I am out of control,
& at times hard to handle.
But if you can't handle me at my worst,
then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best.
- Marilyn Monroe